We're ready, for now

Baby has not come yet. I thought I would start out that way in case you've been reading this for an update. Every time I call my mother I need to start the conversation with "Amy is not in labor" that way my mother can calm down and not think the call is to announce her new grandson.

We have done lots of shopping (spending lots of money) finishing up getting the bassinet, changing station, play pen, etc, ready. I think we have the major items taken care of, and put together.

We received a crib which we will use as a bassinet from Amy's grandparents. It is really nice, has character, and has held many Arntsons. There is a silver plate that reads "Arntson Crib, New 8/20/28 Rebuilt 3/30/79". It was the crib her grandfather was in as an infant and it has been passed down for generations. As safety practices have changed a lot in the last 80 years, I made sure to go online and research crib safety and make any modifications necessary to make it safe. I found the University of Missouri Extension service Web site with child safety tips.

Our two main concerns were that slats should be no more than 2 3/8 inches apart and the ma tress should fit snugly. We bought a new mattress and put fabric over the slats on the sides since they were 3 inches apart. The ends were safe at 2 inches. It would definitely not be safe for a more active baby that could pull itself up. As bassinets go, it is now safe for a newborn.

Amy will not be going back to school after break. Her doctor has recommended rest periods because of her high blood pressure. Her sub is now officially in charge! Chad, however, will be going back to work on the 2nd of January as long as baby is not born.

We'll keep you posted!